Are You Looking For Me?

I date for kicks, so what's your excuse?

Hello there and thank you for stopping by to my slice of cyberspace and temple of veritable indulgence.

I am an international enchantress, wanton muse and bonne vivante. Often described as being very English, whatever that means with perfectly rounded vowels. Blonde with seductive, knowing blue eyes, slim with a sensuous natural hour glass figure. 

Spending my formative years locked away at an all girls' boarding school no doubt accounts for my healthy preoccupation with those who posses a Y chromosome and a continual need to misbehave. How I was educated may be important to some, well more likely the goings on at those dorm midnight feasts and communal showers I suspect:) Fear not, I wont shatter such salacious fantasies, au contraire. Myself, I am very much interested in the individual and what they have to offer. A post-graduate student who likes to escape the inevitable ennui of daily life by occasionally dabbling in the demimonde. The duality excites me and satiates my left-field and hedonistic leanings. Life has been fortuitous and afforded me a plethora of travelling adventures; providing some unique experiences and diverse insights. This is an insatiable indulgence of mine, and I'm always looking for my next fix. I am an adventurous soul with a maverick streak. My outlook on life is buoyant and positive, passionate and spirited indeed. I would like to consider myself to be a decent, well grounded and humoured individual.

I endeavour to surround myself with those who possess an altruistic upbeat disposition and are drama free, for life is too short for dead wood. In the succession of curve balls that life serves, I do my best not to take myself too seriously. I naturally gravitate to erudite gentlemen, so feel free to showcase that brilliant mind of yours to this captive audience. A girl who enjoys a few rounds of cerebral foreplay with those who are blessed with quick witted verbal dexterity. But be warned, that I tease mercilessly and like to give as good as I get, I am no cookie-cutter. A keen sense of humour is a requisite for a successful date in my book, make me laugh and you are half way there.

I am always on the look out for a partner in crime to help release my 'inner foodie’ and explore our gastrosexuality; or share in the City’s cultural offerings for that essential fix, I especially adore the ballet. I am on an eternal quest to find the ultimate fillet mignon and complimentary red, so Argentina hits the spot:) I have a weakness for fabulous seafood in all its incarnations, from high grade sushi to a mountainous fruits de mer. Equally, Le Français, least I forget, do seem to know a thing or two about delectable nosh and most definitely have my attention. But who taught whom, the French or the Italians? Long discussion! For me though, great food is great food, be it a hole in the wall gem or 3 star Michelin extravaganza. My education is on-going and global, I love nothing more than combining travel and new food-gasm discoveries. 

To offset my epicurean indulgences I am keen contender for outdoor activities; whether it be diving (PADI advanced) riding,sailing (RYA certified), skiing, hiking or a round of golf (I'm excellent at crazy golf) and collecting scary looking dolls from around the world (ok not really)  I am at my happiest being outdoors and active. I do not profess to be Olympic standard but I am always game to give it a go. As we Brits say, 'It's the taking part that counts'

I like to apply the adage of quality over quantity to my life, from how I spend my time, including the company I keep, less is certainly more, all things in moderation right! If you too relate to this we could be on the right track. For I search for those who shy from the perfunctory but crave to lose themselves in suspended decadence which heightens with each clandestine tryst. I am not for the gentleman who just wants to add to his ‘little black book’ :)  If you are someone who has a healthy sense of the ridiculous, a predilection for overindulgence, enjoys nothing more than laughing until you cry and a penchant for afternoon tea; then I know we will have a ball.

I am most suited for those who are seeking to cultivate intimate personal connections of a highly charged nature over an extended period of time. Physicality albeit important may not be your sole consideration as you need to relate on an intellectual level first with the emphasis on companionship. The  social aspect of an encounter holding equal merit. If you are looking for a 'session' or a list of services that reads like a take away menu then please think on. There is nothing more indulgent than re-living those illustrious first date feelings; the heady excitement; the internal butterflies; the flirting; the anticipation of what will unfold with sensual exploration. A dynamic achieved by a true dual interaction, when both of us are fully engaged, equally enhancing the date with altruism, and ending in mutual satisfaction. When we depart, we leave indelible fond memories, foundations for our next passionate encounter. For I am a self-confessed romantic who adores the dance of mutual seduction. For me it is very simple, when we are together, I truly want to be enjoying myself and having as much fun as you are. If I feel that this will not be the case, I would rather stay at home and rearrange my sock drawer.

Let us both escape momentarily from all this global doom and gloom and create our own intimate fiscal stimulus and experience my unique  quantitative easing. Let's hide away accompanied by a chilled bottle of vintage champers or an opulent red bursting with berries. Or how about joining me on a jolly sojourn à deux to Bordeaux and Burgundy, for I know just the ticket. A shared experience is always so much more fruitful, don't you think?  I am an oenophile in training and seeking on-going tuition, care to assist?

There is nothing wrong in life with rewarding yourself with the fruits of your labour, self-indulgence is very underrated, so go ahead, treat yourself. If you too agree that the princess attitude and accompanying pretensions are ‘so last year‘, then we could be in good company. Perhaps I have stirred your curiosity to find out more about the person behind the words. If you are seeking an uncomplicated fun filled dalliance with a worldly woman who possesses the maturity and life experience to provide a high comfort level, a real person in fact, then look no further. So if you fancy a spot of critical thinking, then do stop by. For life is a series of chapters and perhaps you might shortly be making an entry to my prelude:) 

So what are you waiting for, carpe diem. I don't bite, well only if you want me to.

My home is London and I am able to travel internationally with sufficient notice.